Break free from being the good daughter

– Start your journey to introducing respectful boundaries.

Did you grow up with a traditional Asian family? You know what I’m talking about. Not just your parents, but grandparents, uncles, aunties, or even older siblings who might take you for granted. They don’t understand you and you often feel frustrated and annoyed at what they expect from you.

Instead of being able to live your own life, your family relies on you and expects you to drop everything and serve them. You have other commitments like, work and your own family but you find yourself driving to their house whenever they ask you to do things for them like being an interpreter, filling out their paperwork or running their errands.

When you’re with them, they comment on your appearance, friends, studies, career, marriage, or mothering choices and instead of being able to respond how you’d like – or not respond at all, you find yourself always having to bite your tongue. You even find yourself feeling resentful that they have no respect for your time, or what might be going on with your own life. 


They continue to remind you of the sacrifices they have made for you to live a better life than them, so you worry that if you speak up or say no, that they will think or call you disrespectful and ungrateful.

Maybe you’ve tried to say no before, but when you’ve seen their reaction, you’ve felt even more guilty. You want them to appreciate you, try to understand you and ultimately have mutual respect for you.

As someone who was deeply rooted in being a good daughter to my parents and a people pleaser to my older siblings, I just wanted to be appreciated and understood. I no longer wanted to feel resentment towards them and wanted to build a healthier relationship with them. Having learnt about boundaries and how to implement them, I have created a better connection with my family that has allowed me to do things from a space of love and honesty.

That’s why I have designed this program for you because I know you want this type of relationship too. Maybe you can’t imagine it, but it is so possible.  This program will help you to start your journey into recognising how being the good daughter is holding you back from putting yourself first and realising your own self-worth.

In this program, our conversations will help you to learn about boundaries and how to implement them in a respectful way, so that you can change your life and begin to break

Investing in my program will include:

  • 1x 60 min initial consult where we will get to know each other and I’ll hear from you, your current challenges with your family.

  • 4 weeks of supportive messaging during these four weeks, where I can support you in real time, particularly where a situation comes up.

  • 1x 60-minute reflection session so we can look back on all that you have achieved.


Your investment is $480 upfront or a weekly split payment of 4x $130.

 

I want to help you create freedom in your life and a stronger relationship with your family, see if my program can help you, book a free 30 minute discovery call with me.

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